Intro, under-18 warning and re-direction to www.scarleteen.com.
2:15-15:50 Listener mail
A listener writes in about meeting in the middle in a happy mono/poly relationship; 3:45 A bi switch says poly helps satisfy his relationship; 4:15 Mike asks how you know that people aren’t trying to steal your partner; 8:00 listener wrote in about being bisexual not necessarily requiring polyamory and not being attracted to people on the basis of gender; 10:50 Carolyn was relieved to hear that others feel left out when her partner flirts; minx recommends Chapter 3 of The Ethical Slut and comments that this is an example of envy; 14:10 Bubba (monogamous and vanilla) says hello 15:05 Sam says hello and promises to comment on ADHD/ADD soon
15:50-26:45 Poly in Media: Big Love reviews
A listener comments on the lack of communication among family members and the producers’ lack of research in Big Love; minx comments that the wives really need additional husbands for emotional and social support and gives the producers credit for doing some research 19:00 Rob Wilson is writing reviews of each episode on the Polyamorous Percolations website; his review of this episode is here; minx makes a plea for tolerance and to take advantage of opportunities for education. 22:15 R, our resident going-to-hell Mormon comments on In Sacred Lonliness, on the Mormon tithe, on misconceptions about the church, and goats.
26:45-40:35 Poly in Media: History of polygamy and polygyny
Craig comments on “Inside Polygamy” on A&E and worries that people will associate polyamory with the negative side of polygamy; 28:45 Dr. Dray’s audio comment on the anthropological history of polygyny; 34:00 This article, Paradise Lost, from InsideHigherEd, includes a fascinating study of the poet Milton’s writings on polygamy; 37:45 Brent comments on some groups’ arguments against plural marriage really being manifestations of a basic fear of change
Like the intro music? It’s “All Your Sins” by Amplifico.
40:35- Poly in Media: Gay Marriage/Poly Marriage arguments
A fascinating Washington Post article, Pandora and Polyamory, about the logical argument for plural marriage and how many gay rights activists take exception to this argument; Charles Krauthammer points out that the state of marriage is a symptom of the culture, not a warning as to its demise. minx poses the orientation versus practice with regards to polyamory; Bubba sends in a link to a blogger who comments about the fact that marriage is a legal contract and not state-sanctioned love.
Like the intro music? It’s “Flutter” by Amplifico.
47:15-55:15 Poly in the Media: the New Monogamy
This article from the Utne Reader points out that managed monogamy and polyamory share some ideas; this article on the new monogamy offers various opinions on whether the new monogamy works, including Dr. Ruth saying that jealousy is too big a risk to take, which minx of course takes huge exception to. Why give jealousy all that power?
Like the music? It’s “Lullaby” by Jeremy Kushnier.
Questions? Comments? Feedback? Email me at firstname.lastname@example.org or call the listener comment line at 206-202-POLY. And hey, why not attach an audio comment to that email? Thanks for listening!
If you like the intro/outro music, check out Pacemaker Jane, a cool band out of Ohio.