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0:00 Introduction and host chat
Intro, under-18 warning and re-direction to www.scarleteen.com; friend me on Twitter and answer questions about what you want on the show, call 206-202-POLY with comments
2:30 Host chat
minx pleas for folks to donate through the Tip Jar and to write a review on iTunes or Podcast Alley or wherever you listen to PW
3:20 Interview, part II: Tacit
Tacit, host of the Xeromag poly site, discusses heinlein and jealousy; don’t confuse the trigger for the root; expressing your needs, even when a new person comes along
11:45 life rewards people who move in the direction of greatest courage; the rewards of a husband reaching out and talking to the wife’s new lover, who was succesfully exploring kink with her;
14:00 his new book, More Than Two, his LiveJournal is a Tacit, and his mega poly site is at Xeromag poly site; the book’s focus is on practical tools to make relationships work on a daily basis
17:35 comments on NRE–he thinks it keeps you from getting to the good stuff and knowing who the person really is; a shared life
19:45 Franklin long-distance relationships; his polysaturation point for non-LDR’s (three); and LDR’s requiring deliberate time versus volume of mundane time; minx comments on needing a poly sugardaddy to support her LDR habits; knowing where your boundaries are with discussing sex
24:45 having a lover/main partner who takes it upon herself (is “proactive”) to ask about and discuss his relationships with new partners instead of waiting for him to tell her what is going on
29:35 optimism for love
Upcoming show: What geek tools do you use to maintain and manage your relationship? Polyamory for geeks!
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