Lady Porn Day: My first porno

There’s a word for a sexual trend that imprints in your young mild when you first hit puberty. Sadly, I don’t remember what it is. But the idea is that if, when your hormones start raging, say, bell-bottoms are in style, then you tend to imprint bell-bottoms as sexy, and you will most likely always find them sexy, perhaps even to the point of fetish.

I don’t have such a youthful obsession story, at least not for today. But I’ve often wondered where my bukkake fetish came from, and it’s pretty clear: the first porn I ever watch contained a bukkake scene.

It was New Wave Hookers 2, and I watched it in the early 90s with my monogamous, vanilla boyfriend. (I was monogamous and vanilla at that time as well.) There were other scenes, but the one that stuck in my mind was one in which a girl was laid out on the table, surrounded by cocks, and she took them all in her hands and mouth, over and over.

I’m pretty sure this scene is what made me a cum slut. Ever since then, I’ve not had a single masturbatory fantasy that didn’t involve at least some aspect of multiple cocks and lots of cum.

As to why this particular scene stuck me so strongly, I’m not sure. The uncharitable might say it’s because I like being the center of attention or the only woman in a sea of cock; the more knowledgeable might say it’s because it involves an element of force and submission, which is also a long-running theme in my masturbatory fantasies. Either way, this video got me to appreciate vanilla porn and fueled many a fantasy for many a year after.

What about you? Do you remember your first porno?

8 comments to Lady Porn Day: My first porno

  • [...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Minx, Minx, Minx, Kaitlin Armstrong, Brandon and others. Brandon said: RT @cunningminx: PW 265 is up! And it's all about PORN! http://bit.ly/ePv4BO #ladypornday [...]

  • Not a lady but I’ll share my first porn story…or stories.

    My first experience with the erotic was when I was only 7 or so. My father very cleverly hid his Penthouses and Galleries under the towels in the bathroom (great hiding place there, Dad!) They gave me my first glimpse at the naked female form. Granted this was the early 70′s in Canada and the censorship laws were pretty stringent so there was very little to see aside from boobies.

    My first real porn movie was at a friend’s house during high school. It was hilarious! Not sure it was meant to be though. Had something to do with the Devil making people horny. Typical 70′s porn stuff (again, heavily edited, so it was basically softcore). I remember quite vividly a scene where a cop is running after a suspect with his cock hanging out of his pants, flopping back and forth! He had been getting some oral lovin’ in his cruiser when the suspect ran by. Oddly enough they both formed my opinion of porn as something that should be fun and at times beautiful. I’ve watched a lot of porn and the ones I like best are the ones that show people having fun, no matter what it is they’re doing. If they look bored or indifferent then its a turn off for sure. Is there anything more beautiful than a woman’s face during a real orgasm?

  • Hardin Reddy

    My first real porn–seen in a movie theater before VCRs became widespread–was Russ Meyer’s “Beneath the Valley of the Ultra Vixens.” Still a classic!

  • Very cool post! You helped Me recall: Behind the Green Door and Yes…early Ginger! The way that Ginger, Christi & Marilyn loved cock…well, I just adore a good woman who reminds Me of these fine ladies!
    and of course… My current ongoing fanatasy- to be the Male surrounded by females as Marilyn is in Behind the Greend Door.

    Early memories…fun… I think I’ll go write about my early “big brother/sadistic” training with my younger bro!

    My best to you sweet lady,

    Jim

  • StCrispy

    I’m sure my first porn was someone’s Playboy / Penthouse in the 70s. Film was actually quite late – probably the 90s, probably something from the internet. I just never had the money, privacy or interest to indulge, really until I married. (We both enjoy porn, together and seperately.)

    I think everyone should get gang-banged for their birthday. As a bi male, I switch between being one of the boys and wanting to be the girl in the middle. I’m fortunate to occasionally get to experience something pretty close to that.

  • I fell in love with porn through the letters in Penthouse, at first, and “My Secret Garden,” by Nancy Friday, second. Back then the letters in Penthouse were really, really dirty. There was this one letter about a guy who sneaks into his sister’s all-girl boarding school… need I say more? There was a “boys with boys” gay-porn section…. It was awesome! It’s kinda nice that I ended up, years later, writing for Penthouse. It was quite an honor for me.

    What really gets my blood up, even now, is Victorian porn. I like it because it’s completely uncensored and completely devoid of political correctness. I am a big advocate of social progress, don’t get me wrong, but I think in fantasy we should allow our fantasies to be as f*ed up as our twisted little minds might be inclined to make them.

    I think fantasy and masturbation allow us to work out and work through a lot of our deep emotional/psychological issues, and this is a good thing. I think that we learn about ourselves through our sexuality, and parts of us can be helped and healed as we allow ourselves to take that internal erotic journey.

    I’ve spent most of my writing career to making down and dirty porn that’s truly masturbatory. I hope I’ve done that. That’s feminism, that’s women’s liberation, to me – a truly erotic female voice: mine, my real-life, New York, sexual, pornographic, female, 51-year-old self.

  • SMax

    Minx,
    After listening to my first of your many pod casts, I appreciate your insight and positive outlook on sometimes sensitive issues we all deal with at some point. The information and entertaining style you present such topics is a breath of fresh air and helpful in my/our journey of life and the pursuit of happiness. Looking forward to more.

    SMax

Leave a Reply

 

 

 

You can use these HTML tags

<a href="" title=""> <abbr title=""> <acronym title=""> <b> <blockquote cite=""> <cite> <code> <del datetime=""> <em> <i> <q cite=""> <strike> <strong>

Make a Donation

Poly Weekly Playmates!

Wanna play?
CatalystCon West '14

Poly Weekly on Facebook

Poly Weekly on Twitter