By Cunning Minx, on May 30th, 2011%
Slides from my intro to congoing and con conversation class at ShibariCon. Thanks to everyone who participated!
By Cunning Minx, on May 23rd, 2011%
 Listener W writes in to ask: am I jealous, or is this situation unfair?
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Introduction and host chat
Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com
1:20 Topic: Am I jealous?
Wendy writes in to ask advice from the cohost team: am I jealous? She gets a certain number of hours a week with her top, and compares that to the number of hours his wife enjoys with him. She relays anecdotes of her top engaging in sex with another bottom, which was beyond the scope of their agreement, and with his wife, which was beyond her expectations. She relays a situation in which she watched the children for his and his wife’s anniversary trip, but her own collaring anniversary went unnoticed.
Is she jealous and how should she cope? Cohosts Joreth, Pepper and Franklin share insights and give advice, including making a list of the things she needs to feel secure in a relationship and how she would like for commitment to be shown.
20:40 Announcements
Poly in Pictures blog on jealousy – for a little jealousy humor
21:40 Feedback
- Musqrat comments on the Sister Wives commentary from episode 266, comparing to a sort of institutionalized D/s situation
- A caller who believes in religious polygyny makes a call for tolerance
- DDog calls in to appreciate the term “anchors” from episode 260
35:40 Thanks to Earl and John for their donations
Wrap-up
Questions? Comments? Feedback? Email polyweekly@gmail.com and attach an audio comment or call the listener comment line at 206-202-POLY. Friend us on Twitter or Facebook, leave a comment here or discuss your own topics at the forums. Check out PolyWeekly podcasts at polyweekly.libsyn.com. Share this with a friend or write an iTunes review! Want Poly Weekly for your very own? Get the Best of Poly Weekly collection from PodDisc.com Our intro and outro music is courtesy of Pacemaker Jane, “Good Suspicions.”
By Cunning Minx, on May 17th, 2011%
 How kinky are we, really? What is mainstream and what is sexually deviant? Turns out, there’s no such thing as sexual deviance
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1:00 Introduction and host chat
6:00 Topic: You’re not as kinky as you think
Musings over the findings of a massive internet sex survey made into a book, “A Billion Wicked Thoughts,” by Sai Gaddam. Interesting findings include:
- Gay and straight men alike favor chests, butts and feet, in that order
- The top 10 sex searches cover youth, gay, MILFs (go MILFs!), breasts and cheating wives.
- Men fantasize a lot about group sex.
- Straight men prefer amateur porn to highly-produced porn (score one for real boobs and brown hair!)
- Dominance and submission are extremely common searches, not terribly deviant
- Foot fetishes are common across all cultures
- “There’s no such thing as sexual deviance.”
17:55 Feedback
David, 60, shares his experiences organizing and running KanPoly, a Kansas-area discussion and social poly group
19:50 Wrap-up
Questions? Comments? Feedback? Email polyweekly@gmail.com and attach an audio comment or call the listener comment line at 206-202-POLY. Friend us on Twitter or Facebook, leave a comment here or discuss your own topics at the forums. Check out PolyWeekly podcasts at polyweekly.libsyn.com. Share this with a friend or write an iTunes review! Want Poly Weekly for your very own? Get the Best of Poly Weekly collection from PodDisc.com Our intro and outro music is courtesy of Pacemaker Jane, “Good Suspicions.”
By Cunning Minx, on May 9th, 2011%
 Did you ever wonder about all the things the poly-identified must deal with that the monogamous don’t? Cory and Kate did. And Cory made a list!
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Introduction and host chat
Intro, under-18 warning and re-direction to http://www.scarleteen.com; friend us on Twitter or Facebook, call 206-202-POLY with comments or discuss your own topics at the forums.
Topic: Monogamous Privilege
Cory and Kate on the aggregated content: list of privileges that the monogamous-identified often take for granted. Roughly grouped by these themes:
- Poly configurations are not represented in mainstream and therefore considered other
- Monogamy is not considered a choice but poly is
- People make assumptions regarding sexuality or abuse and anyone identifying as poly is asked to represent the entire group socially
- Monogamy had inferred support for children and family
The East Portland blog’s post on Cory’s monogamous privilege checklist.
Feedback
Wrap-up
Questions? Comments? Feedback? Email polyweekly@gmail.com or call the listener comment line at 206-202-POLY. And hey, why not attach an audio comment to that email?  Check out PolyWeekly at polyweekly.libsyn.com. Share this with a friend or write an iTunes review! Want Poly Weekly for your very own? Get the Best of Poly Weekly collection from PodDisc.com Our intro and outro music is courtesy of Pacemaker Jane, “Good Suspicions.”
By Cunning Minx, on May 2nd, 2011%
 The secondary blues From listener Amy: how do you deal with being a secondary when you long for primary benefits?
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Introduction and host chat
Intro, under-18 warning and re-direction to http://www.scarleteen.com; friend us on Twitter or Facebook, call 206-202-POLY with comments or discuss your own topics at the forums.
Announcements
 Girl with the Dragon Tattoo Book review: Girl with the Dragon Tattoo
- Kurt reviews poly themes and relationships in the Girl with the Dragon Tattoo series
Advice from the crew: what if you’re secondary but don’t want to be?
What if you long to be a live-in primary, but metamours or partners are putting on the brakes? Cohosts Franklin Veaux, Joreth and Pepper give advice to listener Amy.
Thank you
Frances, Paul and Tofa for donations! You rock my world and help cover bandwidth and travel expenses.
Wrap-up
Questions? Comments? Feedback? Email polyweekly@gmail.com or call the listener comment line at 206-202-POLY. And hey, why not attach an audio comment to that email? Check out PolyWeekly at polyweekly.libsyn.com. Share this with a friend or write an iTunes review! Want Poly Weekly for your very own? Get the Best of Poly Weekly collection from PodDisc.com Our intro and outro music is courtesy of Pacemaker Jane, “Good Suspicions.”
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