507: How do I get control of my fears?

How do I get control of my fears and insecurities in order to better deal with poly situations? UPDATE: THE AUDIO FILE HAS BEEN REPLACED WITH A FULL MONO MIX. NO MORE PING-PONG LISTENING! Download the episode directly Under 18? Stop listening...

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My poly story

On the podcast, I've told bits and pieces of my poly story and answered the questions "how did you know you were poly" and "when did you come out." For those who have an interest, here is my story of...

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Poly Book Nook: The Art of Three

An interview with Erin McRae and Racheline Maltese, the authors of the new poly romance novel, The Art of Three Why did you decide to write this book? Erin and I have been writing romance novels together for several years, and...

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Poly survey

A call to help a PhD candidate in Social Psychology with a dissertation study Daily study of motivations and experiences in multi-partnered relationships  Do you identify as having at least one primary or committed partner/relationship, and do you live with a...

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Review of Captain Sir Richard Francis Burton by Edward Rice

It ain't all about the polyamory, a review of Captain Sir Richard Francis Burton by Edward Rice But what about the poly? For those of you wondering why this review is appearing on Poly Weekly, Sir Richard Francis Burton was a believer in non-monogamy....

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Do you have to love yourself before others will love you?

You’ve heard the saying. “Before anyone else will love you, you have to love yourself first,” or some derivation of it. It’s common wisdom, spread around all over. As anyone who knows me understands I am very suspicious of...

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Cunning Minx on the Savage Lovecast

I have to admit that Dan Savage is one of my idols. Yes, you can argue with some of the advice he gives, but that's true of just about every advice columnist. And he's been helping people get perspective on...

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504: Solo poly with Aggie Sez

Talking solo poly and getting off the relationship escalator with Aggie Sez/Amy Gahran Download the episode directly Under 18? Stop listening now and visit Scarleteen 1:30 Announcements The website has a new home page! Check it out at PolyWeekly.com The poly dating ebook,...

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Words to Live By: Biology Always Comes First

I’ll take well-known ones and modify them to fit me. For example, “If you want something done right do it yourself, OR get out of the way and let someone else do it for themselves.” Or: “Moderation in all...

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Survey: legal needs of polyamorous people

Just found out about this awesome, collaborative effort by REF, NCSF, Loving More and the ASBC. Help us out by taking this survey about legal needs! Take the survey More info: We know that legal protections are important for you and your...

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