PW 307: A Year of Sex

Mia Martina

A Year of Sex with the sultry Mia Martina

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Introduction

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1:00 News and host chat

5:00 Mia Martina’s A Year of Sex

A yummy interview with the hot and sultry Mia Martina, host of the I Want Your Sex podcast and author of the memoir A Year of Sex, her foray into the world of New York sex clubs. The lovely and talented Mia shares:

  • Why podcast first and then the book
  • What chapters she got the most feedback on
  • If she would recommend the sex club path for someone getting over a bad breakup
  • Advice for those going to sex parties for the first time who don’t want to look like they’re going for the first time
  • 24:30 Sharing a sexy story

If you’re local to Austin, Texas, find her performance erotica troupe at Bedpost Confessions. Or follow Mia on Twitter.

30:50 Happy Poly Moment

  • Lisa from Boston shares a happy poly moment of her boyfriend using her girlfriend to make sure she stayed healthy
  • Shaun shares the story of his poly-unsure girlfriend starting to date

33:25 Feedback

Jane shares a happy poly story of being able to share the same bed with her partner.

35:00 Thanks

Thanks to Sean for his donation this week!

Wrap up


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PW 291: Yes means yes

Going a step further for negotiating consent: yes means yes

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Introduction

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1:00 Announcements

  • The Geeky Kink Event is November 4-6 in New Jersey, including D&D gaming and TARDIS bondage boxes in the play space!

2:20 Yes means yes

A look at a new campaign that takes “no means no” to a more proactive level: yes means yes. Cohosts:

Franklin Veaux

Joreth

Puck

Active Consent
Yes means yes blog
The contemps.com on yes means yes

Slutwalk London on yes means yes
CafePress

25:10

“Dinner Party” erotica minigasms. Like it and want more? Support the Minigasm project here!

30:45 Feedback

  • 30 year old male asks how to get past the self-doubt and criticism when exploring polyamory for the first time
  • Amanda asks how poly family’s kids can be taken away
  • Dave, a monogamous listener, says thanks!

42:00 Wrap-up

Questions? Comments? Feedback? Email polyweekly@gmail.com and attach an audio comment or call the listener comment line at 206-202-POLY. Friend us on Twitter or Facebook or leave a comment here. Check out PolyWeekly podcasts at polyweekly.libsyn.com. Share this with a friend or write an iTunes review! Want Poly Weekly for your very own? Get the Best of Poly Weekly collection from PodDisc.com Our intro and outro music is courtesy of Pacemaker Jane, “Good Suspicions.”

PW 273: You’re not as kinky as you think

How kinky are we, really?

What is mainstream and what is sexually deviant? Turns out, there’s no such thing as sexual deviance

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1:00 Introduction and host chat

6:00 Topic: You’re not as kinky as you think

Musings over the findings of a massive internet sex survey made into a book, “A Billion Wicked Thoughts,” by Sai Gaddam. Interesting findings include:

  • Gay and straight men alike favor chests, butts and feet, in that order
  • The top 10 sex searches cover youth, gay, MILFs (go MILFs!), breasts and cheating wives.
  • Men fantasize a lot about group sex.
  • Straight men prefer amateur porn to highly-produced porn (score one for real boobs and brown hair!)
  • Dominance and submission are extremely common searches, not terribly deviant
  • Foot fetishes are common across all cultures
  • “There’s no such thing as sexual deviance.”

17:55 Feedback

David, 60, shares his experiences organizing and running KanPoly, a Kansas-area discussion and social poly group

    19:50 Wrap-up

    Questions? Comments? Feedback? Email polyweekly@gmail.com and attach an audio comment or call the listener comment line at 206-202-POLY. Friend us on Twitter or Facebook, leave a comment here or discuss your own topics at the forums. Check out PolyWeekly podcasts at polyweekly.libsyn.com. Share this with a friend or write an iTunes review! Want Poly Weekly for your very own? Get the Best of Poly Weekly collection from PodDisc.com Our intro and outro music is courtesy of Pacemaker Jane, “Good Suspicions.”

    Poly Weekly 265: Lady Porn Day

    Women: what is your relationship with porn?

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    Introduction and host chat

    Intro, under-18 warning and re-direction to http://www.scarleteen.com; friend us on Twitter or Facebook, call 206-202-POLY with comments or discuss your own topics at the forums.

    Topic: Lady Porn Day

    The motivation behind Rabbit White’s fabulous idea, Lady Porn Day

    My first porno

    Cunning Minx’s essay on her very first experience with porn and origins of her bukkake fetish.

    Wrap-up
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    Lady Porn Day: My first porno

    There’s a word for a sexual trend that imprints in your young mild when you first hit puberty. Sadly, I don’t remember what it is. But the idea is that if, when your hormones start raging, say, bell-bottoms are in style, then you tend to imprint bell-bottoms as sexy, and you will most likely always find them sexy, perhaps even to the point of fetish.

    I don’t have such a youthful obsession story, at least not for today. But I’ve often wondered where my bukkake fetish came from, and it’s pretty clear: the first porn I ever watch contained a bukkake scene.

    It was New Wave Hookers 2, and I watched it in the early 90s with my monogamous, vanilla boyfriend. (I was monogamous and vanilla at that time as well.) There were other scenes, but the one that stuck in my mind was one in which a girl was laid out on the table, surrounded by cocks, and she took them all in her hands and mouth, over and over.

    I’m pretty sure this scene is what made me a cum slut. Ever since then, I’ve not had a single masturbatory fantasy that didn’t involve at least some aspect of multiple cocks and lots of cum.

    As to why this particular scene stuck me so strongly, I’m not sure. The uncharitable might say it’s because I like being the center of attention or the only woman in a sea of cock; the more knowledgeable might say it’s because it involves an element of force and submission, which is also a long-running theme in my masturbatory fantasies. Either way, this video got me to appreciate vanilla porn and fueled many a fantasy for many a year after.

    What about you? Do you remember your first porno?

    Nobilis Erotica: Actual Size

    New episodes are coming, but here is a special treat for you! The big-ass pervert Nobilis wrote a juicy bit of erotica such as he knew the Minx would love: poly themes, ginormous boobies, a little spanking and some silliness to boot. Take a listen to “Actual Size.” And make sure the bathroom door is closed this time. :-)

    Poly Weekly #208: Erotica for you and me!

    This week’s Poly Weekly #208: Erotica for you and me!.

    Download the mp3 directly!

    0:00 Introduction and host chat
    Intro, under-18 warning and re-direction to www.scarleteen.com; friend me on Twitter and answer questions about what you want on the show, call 206-202-POLY with comments or discuss your own topics at the forums at http://forum.polyweekly.com.

    Topic:Christian Erotica?
    Christian Erotica
    Erotica for the blind?
    Get your advance copy of Graydancer’sJujun Jujun, a much better erotic novel than anything we just reported on by clicking here

    Wrap-up
    Questions? Comments? Feedback? Email cunningminx@gmail.com or call the listener comment line at 206-202-POLY. And hey, why not attach an audio comment to that email? :-) Check out PolyWeekly at polyweekly.libsyn.com. Share this with a friend or write an iTunes review!

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    Pirate porn review

    Well, it’s a rough job, but someone’s got to do it. This Sunday, I gathered my girlfriends (and one brave man) to watch the porn version of Pirates.

    Pirates porn

    Um… yeah, of course we were dressed as pirates; how else would we dress?

    Overall rating:
    Costumes and sets ****
    Acting *
    Sex **
    Soundtrack ****

    Interestingly enough, I’ve heard that there are PG-rated versions of this porno floating around that leave out the sex and leave in all the dialogue and plot. That may seem counterintuitive for porn, but in truth, there was a plot. I swear, there WAS! For me, the absolute best aspect of this video was the costumes. Me, I’m a costume freak, and the costumes and romantic, candle-laden sets were just beautiful. Plus, I swoon over a man in a poufy shirt, so put a porn star in a poufy shirt on a pirate ship (in this case, Captain Edward Reynolds, pirate hunter), and I pretty much don’t care if the sex is vanilla. A few other comments from my fellow reviewers:

    • Serena spanking Jules was lame
    • The double penetration with candles got two thumbs up
    • Showing condom use got many nods of approval
    • Showing a married couple fucking and then kissing intimately was unusual and got a chorus of sweet “awww”‘s from the gang
    • The orchestral score was fantastic and really helped to set the dramatic mood
    • Excellent lighting, none of that harsh one-light-kit stuff. Soft, romantic and flattering
    • Jules should not be allowed to talk. She is only useful when her mouth is stuffed with cock. I think she’s worried her BoTox will leak out if she actually has a facial expression of any kind while speaking.
    • In general, the women’s performances were wooden; they couldn’t deliver a line to save their lives.
    • However, the men didn’t seem to take their acting so seriously and had fun with their dialogue; as a result, they were entertaining and engaging even if they clearly weren’t experienced with dialogue.
    • Some of the girl-on-girl action was quite vigorous and convincing

    Overall, if you like a good story with great costumes, set and lighting that will feed your wenchy or poufy-shirted fantasies, this is a great story and beautiful to watch. Just mute it whenever the girls are speaking.

    To order your copy, go to AdamEve.com and use checkout code “Minx” for 50% off!

    Poly Weekly #152: Trans Like Me!

    The new Polyamory Weekly #152: Trans Like Me! is up! Direct download is at Poly Weekly #152

    Subscribe now with iTunes one-click!
    Please Digg this podcast at Digg’s PW podcast page!

    0:00 Introduction and host chat
    Intro, under-18 warning and re-direction to www.scarleteen.com; friend me on Twitter and answer questions about what you want on the show, call 206-202-POLY with comments or discuss your own topics at the new FORUMS at http://forum.polyweekly.com.

    1:00 Host Chat
    A Cunning Minx freshly back from Sex 2.0 relishes the memories of the conference! Rachel Kramer Bussel, eroticist and cupcake whore, was a delight; Regina Lynn from Wired; Audacia Ray, vixen extraordinaire and Melissa Gira made it amazing!

    My first session was on sacred sexuality; Elizabeth Wood’s session on creating a sex-positive commons online was a great discussion; my own seminar on “Poly Pervs Like Me: Where Are They Hiding?” was packed full; Regina Lynn’s session on the history of cybersex was hysterical and enlightening; the last session of the day was Viviane of Viviane’s Sex Carnival with tons of great online tools

    Plus, I learned that I’m too old to be a pole dancer!

    8:00 Interview: Trans Like Me: Benny
    Joanie had asked about transitioning from being a woman’s husband to being her wife and wanted to know about being poly and transgendered
    9:30 Introduction: Benny is 26 and has been thinking about transitioning from a young age; kinky and pansexual for a long time
    11:00 labels in the trans community
    13:00 when and how it’s OK to ask what the transgendered story is; only OK to ask about genitals if the person is a potential partner
    18:20 prejudice within the poly community
    23:00 poly and kinky overlap; etiquette with trans folks in the poly community
    28:00 using the wrong pronoun; rude outings
    Check out his podcast, Young and Kinky on the 18-35-age kinksters

    33:45 Wrap-up
    Questions? Comments? Feedback? Email cunningminx@gmail.com or call the listener comment line at 206-202-POLY. And hey, why not attach an audio comment to that email? :-) Check out PolyWeekly at polyweekly.libsyn.com. Thanks for listening!

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    Our intro and outro music is courtesy of Pacemaker Jane, “Good Suspicions”

    Poly Weekly #135: Goofy, sexy holiday music!

    The new Polyamory Weekly #135: Goofy, sexy holiday music! is up! Direct download is at Poly Weekly #135

    Subscribe now with iTunes one-click!
    Please Digg this podcast at Digg’s PW podcast page!

    0:00 Introduction and host chat
    Intro, under-18 warning and re-direction to www.scarleteen.com; friend me on Twitter and answer questions about what you want on the show, call 206-202-POLY with comments.

    Listen to Minx narrate the part of Jenna, a sexual-energy-sucking lesbian succubus on Metamor City‘s Troubled Minds part 1 and the hot lesbian energy orgy in part 2.

    12 Days of Polyamory
    Not for All the Mistletoe in the World
    Labia Limbo
    Podsafe Christmas Song
    Ms Nutcracker Sweet

    Wrap-up
    Questions? Comments? Feedback? Email cunningminx@gmail.com or call the listener comment line at 206-202-POLY. And hey, why not attach an audio comment to that email? :-) Check out PolyWeekly at polyweekly.libsyn.com. Thanks for listening!

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