Pimp my boobs!

Minx is very sad. Why? No holiday boobies. Make her happy by entering the Pimp My Boobs contest for 2011! Here’s how:

  1. Decorate your boobs in whatever way you think is the most festive.
  2. Take a picture.
  3. Send the pic to polyweekly@gmail.com before December 21.
  4. Listen to Poly Weekly and follow @polyweekly to hear the winner!

Poly Weekly 255: a Poly Vagabond

The vagabond life of a poly musician

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Introduction and host chat

Intro, under-18 warning and re-direction to http://www.scarleteen.com; friend us on Twitter or Facebook, call 206-202-POLY with comments; or discuss your own topics at the forums; or visit our Facebook page.

Announcements

Interview: Jason “Krivo” Flores, on the life of a traveling poly musician

  • Is a “poly traveling musician” redundant?
  • Getting into poly
  • More info on Vagabond Opera

Feedback

New vocabulary suggestions from Niko:

frubble – joy over your loved ones’ joy with others
grubble – sadness over your loved ones’ sadness with others
hubble – many getting physically affectionate when experiencing frubble.

Thanks to Earl, Paul and Ken Haslam for the donations!

Wrap-up
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Our intro and outro music this week is courtesy of Vagabond Opera: Chimeras be Met and The Transformation into Marlene.

Poly Weekly 254: Is marriage out of style?

Kickin’ it back, old school with Graydancer of the Ropecast

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GraydancerIntroduction and host chat

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Announcements

  • Welcome to our old-school cohost, Graydancer of the Ropecast
  • Thanks to our long-term forum administrator and moderator, Vrimj
  • Welcome to our new forum moderator, WhetStone
  • Thanks to Kotu for our new WordPress design–isn’t it pretty?
  • Don’t miss Poly Living Seattle Oct 22-24, 2010

Is marriage out of style and other poly questions

Wrap-up
Questions? Comments? Feedback? Email polyweekly@gmail.com or call the listener comment line at 206-202-POLY. And hey, why not attach an audio comment to that email? :-) Check out PolyWeekly at polyweekly.libsyn.com. Share this with a friend or write an iTunes review!

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Poly Weekly 253: Allena Gabosch, redux

More on being a poly pervert and sex-positive activist with Allena Gabosch, director of the Center for Sex Positive Culture

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Introduction and host chat
Intro, under-18 warning and re-direction to http://www.scarleteen.com; friend us on Twitter or Facebook, call 206-202-POLY with comments or discuss your own topics at the forums.

Announcements

  • Thanks to our long-term forum administrator and moderator, Vrimj
  • Welcome to our new forum moderator, WhetStone
  • Thanks to Kotu for our new WordPress design–isn’t it pretty?
  • Don’t miss Poly Living Seattle Oct 22-24, 2010

Interview: Allena Gabosch

The lovely and talented Allena Gabosch, director of Seattle’s Center for Sex Positive Culture, shares more of her war stories of being poly, including lessons learned the hard way. Live from Paradise Unbound!

Wrap-up
Questions? Comments? Feedback? Email polyweekly@gmail.com or call the listener comment line at 206-202-POLY. And hey, why not attach an audio comment to that email? :-) Check out PolyWeekly at polyweekly.libsyn.com. Share this with a friend or write an iTunes review!

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Poly Weekly 252: Allena Gabosch

A smokin’ hot interview with Allena Gabosch, director of the Center for Sex Positive Culture

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Introduction and host chat

Intro, under-18 warning and re-direction to http://www.scarleteen.com; friend us on Twitter or Facebook, call 206-202-POLY with comments or discuss your own topics at the forums.

Announcements

  • Reporting live from Folsom Street Fair in San Francisco!
  • Don’t miss Poly Living Seattle Oct 22-24, 2010

Interview: Allena Gabosch

The lovely and talented Allena Gabosch, director of Seattle’s Center for Sex Positive Culture, shares the origin story of the Center in its current state and her own experiences with polyamory. Live from Paradise Unbound!

Wrap-up
Questions? Comments? Feedback? Email polyweekly@gmail.com or call the listener comment line at 206-202-POLY. And hey, why not attach an audio comment to that email? :-) Check out PolyWeekly at polyweekly.libsyn.com. Share this with a friend or write an iTunes review!

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Poly Weekly 251: Boobs or hair?

Boobs or hairListener-generated content answering the eternal question, boobs or hair?

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Introduction and host chat
Intro, under-18 warning and re-direction to http://www.scarleteen.com; friend us on Twitter or Facebook, call 206-202-POLY with comments or discuss your own topics at the forums.

Question of the day: boobs or hair?
Lighthearted topic this week, with listener responses posted on Facebook. Thanks to everyone who commented and contributed!

Listener Feedback

  • John from the Midwest, a therapist, recommended Poly Weekly to another therapist who came across a poly quad seeking help! Thanks for pimping the show!
  • Penny/The_Leaky_Pen calls in with praise and scratches
  • Grace calls in with a deliciously Happy Poly Moment
  • Sara writes in on being mono but leading poly discussion groups
  • Broddhisatva and BMBen write in to continue the discussion on poly and atheism from episode 228

Wrap-up
Questions? Comments? Feedback? Email polyweekly@gmail.com or call the listener comment line at 206-202-POLY. And hey, why not attach an audio comment to that email? :-) Check out PolyWeekly at polyweekly.libsyn.com. Share this with a friend or write an iTunes review!

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Our intro and outro music is courtesy of Pacemaker Jane, “Good Suspicions.”

Poly Weekly 250: Poly Parenting Q & A

Matt Bullen and Terisa Greenan
Matt Bullen and Terisa Greenan (of Family the web series) answer YOUR questions about parenting in a poly situation

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Introduction and host chat
Intro, under-18 warning and re-direction to http://www.scarleteen.com; friend us on Twitter or Facebook, call 206-202-POLY with comments or discuss your own topics at the forums.

Interview: Poly parenting
Matt Bullen and Terisa Greenan share their experiences on being poly with children and thoughts on explaining poly to kids.

Do the kids know? Do you worry about the kids telling others?

  • They came out to the child’s teacher, who was supportive
  • They proactively asked the teacher if the child seemed damaged or seemed to suffer any ill effects because of the poly situation
  • They explain to the child that not everyone agrees with and lives in the same lifestyle, and that some people think it’s bad
  • They explained that he doesn’t have to live that way when he grows up; he can do whatever he wants

How does a poly woman choose the genetic donor for her baby if she has multiple partners? Does she give everyone a chance and let the best sperm win?

  • For Terisa, one long-term partner had an interest in having children, and the other didn’t
  • Matt points out that the current configuration was only possible through the graciousness of the participating partners and with the consent of Matt and Vera’s son

How do you answer questions and when do you come out to kids?

  • Don’t keep secrets from your kids. Anything more than a one-night stand needs to be explained openly.
  • Matt’s advice: relax. Some people will criticize you, some won’t speak to you, and at some point your kid will walk in on something inappropriate, just as with monogamy. Relax!
  • If you are comfortable with your poly, then your kid will be. Kids pick up on your hesitancy and fear.

Is there an age for kids that’s easiest to move a new partner in or an age that’s more difficult for kids to handle the change?
It’s case by case and situation-specific. Communication, negotiation, honesty. Your kids learn how to react to things from you.

If you haven’t already, check out their awesome production, Family the Web Series.

Wrap-up
Questions? Comments? Feedback? Email polyweekly@gmail.com or call the listener comment line at 206-202-POLY. And hey, why not attach an audio comment to that email? :-) Check out PolyWeekly at polyweekly.libsyn.com. Share this with a friend or write an iTunes review!

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Our intro and outro music is courtesy of Pacemaker Jane, “Good Suspicions.”

Poly Weekly 241: Kink on Tap

MayMay and Emma of Kink on Tap give away a Poly Camp Too weekend

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Introduction and host chat
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Announcements

  • Three Wise Women event is Dossie Easton, Deborah Anapol and Serena Anderlini-d’Onofrio on July 3, 11:00 a.m.-7:00 p.m. in San Rafael, CA
  • If you’d like to pitch in for my airfare to emcee the event, visit the tip jar at http://www.polyweekly.com–and thanks to Mark, Alan, Chris and XX for the donations so far!
  • Twitter or email polyweekly@gmail.com if you’d like to beta test the Android app. Use subject header “Android app”—thank you!

Interview: MayMay and Emma of Kink on Tap
MayMay and Emma offer to give away a prize: two tickets to PolyCamp Too for July 9-12 near Vancouver. To enter, visit and leave a comment saying why you want to go to this great poly camping event BEFORE June 21, and you’ll be entered to win!

MayMay and Emma host Kink on Tap, a podcast recorded live every Sunday evening and covering topics relating to sexual freedom, sexual moeurs and the sex-positive community.

Vagazzling: pro or con?

Wrap-up
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Win a PolyCamp Too weekend!

How long has it been since Poly Weekly has given away a prize? Forever!

Now, thanks to the generosity of MayMay and Emma, you can win a weekend for two at Polycamp Too in Nainaimo, B.C., Canada, July 9-12.

Theme of Weekend: The Polyamorist’s Tool Kit

Friday July 9 (check in anytime after 2:00pm) to Mon July 12 (check out 11:00 am)
Location: Living Forest RV & Campgrounds, Nanaimo, BC

There will be workshop sessions, children & youth activities, a house concert, and a Poetry Slam (author’s reading) this year! There are only 25 campsites available in our group camping area. There’s running water, electricity and WiFi. There is a group shelter area where most events will be held. It’s a great time every year – don’t miss out!!

Want to win a pair of tickets to this weekend, a $170 value? Just write a comment below saying why you think you should be the one to go. We’ll draw a winner from the entries on MONDAY JUNE 21, so be sure to post your winning comment by then!

Poly Weekly 235: Sex blogger roundtable

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Introduction and host chat
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Announcements

Topic: Sex blogger roundtable with Nina Hartley
What could be more fun than hanging with sex bloggers at SXSW? Nothing, I say!

Wrap-up
Questions? Comments? Feedback? Email polyweekly@gmail.com or call the listener comment line at 206-202-POLY. And hey, why not attach an audio comment to that email? :-) Check out PolyWeekly at polyweekly.libsyn.com. Share this with a friend or write an iTunes review!

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