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frubble – joy over your loved ones’ joy with others grubble – sadness over your loved ones’ sadness with others hubble – many getting physically affectionate when experiencing frubble.
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Our intro and outro music this week is courtesy of Vagabond Opera: Chimeras be Met and The Transformation into Marlene.
Kickin’ it back, old school with Graydancer of the Ropecast
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More on being a poly pervert and sex-positive activist with Allena Gabosch, director of the Center for Sex Positive Culture
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Introduction and host chat
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Announcements
Thanks to our long-term forum administrator and moderator, Vrimj
Welcome to our new forum moderator, WhetStone
Thanks to Kotu for our new WordPress design–isn’t it pretty?
The lovely and talented Allena Gabosch, director of Seattle’s Center for Sex Positive Culture, shares more of her war stories of being poly, including lessons learned the hard way. Live from Paradise Unbound!
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The lovely and talented Allena Gabosch, director of Seattle’s Center for Sex Positive Culture, shares the origin story of the Center in its current state and her own experiences with polyamory. Live from Paradise Unbound!
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Question of the day: boobs or hair?
Lighthearted topic this week, with listener responses posted on Facebook. Thanks to everyone who commented and contributed!
Listener Feedback
John from the Midwest, a therapist, recommended Poly Weekly to another therapist who came across a poly quad seeking help! Thanks for pimping the show!
Penny/The_Leaky_Pen calls in with praise and scratches
Grace calls in with a deliciously Happy Poly Moment
Sara writes in on being mono but leading poly discussion groups
Broddhisatva and BMBen write in to continue the discussion on poly and atheism from episode 228
Wrap-up
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Introduction and host chat
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Interview: Poly parenting
Matt Bullen and Terisa Greenan share their experiences on being poly with children and thoughts on explaining poly to kids.
Do the kids know? Do you worry about the kids telling others?
They came out to the child’s teacher, who was supportive
They proactively asked the teacher if the child seemed damaged or seemed to suffer any ill effects because of the poly situation
They explain to the child that not everyone agrees with and lives in the same lifestyle, and that some people think it’s bad
They explained that he doesn’t have to live that way when he grows up; he can do whatever he wants
How does a poly woman choose the genetic donor for her baby if she has multiple partners? Does she give everyone a chance and let the best sperm win?
For Terisa, one long-term partner had an interest in having children, and the other didn’t
Matt points out that the current configuration was only possible through the graciousness of the participating partners and with the consent of Matt and Vera’s son
How do you answer questions and when do you come out to kids?
Don’t keep secrets from your kids. Anything more than a one-night stand needs to be explained openly.
Matt’s advice: relax. Some people will criticize you, some won’t speak to you, and at some point your kid will walk in on something inappropriate, just as with monogamy. Relax!
If you are comfortable with your poly, then your kid will be. Kids pick up on your hesitancy and fear.
Is there an age for kids that’s easiest to move a new partner in or an age that’s more difficult for kids to handle the change?
It’s case by case and situation-specific. Communication, negotiation, honesty. Your kids learn how to react to things from you.
Wrap-up
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Introduction and host chat
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Announcements
Three Wise Women event is Dossie Easton, Deborah Anapol and Serena Anderlini-d’Onofrio on July 3, 11:00 a.m.-7:00 p.m. in San Rafael, CA
If you’d like to pitch in for my airfare to emcee the event, visit the tip jar at http://www.polyweekly.com–and thanks to Mark, Alan, Chris and XX for the donations so far!
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Interview: MayMay and Emma of Kink on Tap
MayMay and Emma offer to give away a prize: two tickets to PolyCamp Too for July 9-12 near Vancouver. To enter, visit and leave a comment saying why you want to go to this great poly camping event BEFORE June 21, and you’ll be entered to win!
MayMay and Emma host Kink on Tap, a podcast recorded live every Sunday evening and covering topics relating to sexual freedom, sexual moeurs and the sex-positive community.
Vagazzling: pro or con?
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There will be workshop sessions, children & youth activities, a house concert, and a Poetry Slam (author’s reading) this year! There are only 25 campsites available in our group camping area. There’s running water, electricity and WiFi. There is a group shelter area where most events will be held. It’s a great time every year – don’t miss out!!
Want to win a pair of tickets to this weekend, a $170 value? Just write a comment below saying why you think you should be the one to go. We’ll draw a winner from the entries on MONDAY JUNE 21, so be sure to post your winning comment by then!
Introduction and host chat
Intro, under-18 warning and re-direction to http://www.scarleteen.com; friend us on Twitter and answer questions about what you want on the show, call 206-202-POLY with comments or discuss your own topics at the forums.
Wrap-up
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