What is “passive-aggressive” behavior and what is it good for?

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1:30 Topic: What does it mean to be “passive-aggressive”?

Wikipedia gives the limited clinical definition, but Cecil Adams of the Straight Dope has a far more relative (yet researched) take. My own technical definition? “Any behavior in which you feel a strong negative emotion but instead of communicating it directly, you act weird instead.” This manifests in most of us at some point, and it’s incredibly annoying, useless and ultimately ineffective. Let’s just not do it, shall we?

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  1. You mentioned someone “boxed [your] ass” and it made you have a really nice orgasm and squirt all over someone’s floor. What exactly does it mean to “box” someone’s ass?

  2. 🙂 Put on boxing gloves. Punch the ass as if it were a punching bag.

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