509: Loving less after a triad implosion

How do I date only the wife after our triad implodes and the husband won't communicate with me? Download the episode directly Under 18? Stop listening now and visit Scarleteen Today’s cohost is Kevin Patterson 1:30 Topic: How to date half a couple after...

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PW 492: Hitting on metamours

Is it OK to hit on my cute same sex metamours? Or just lazy? Download the mp3 directly Under 18? Stop listening now and visit Scarleteen 1:00 Poly in the News 49 Phrases to Calm an Anxious Child—would this work for jealousy? ...

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PW 468: Talking to one partner about another

Is it OK to vent to one partner about another partner?  Download the mp3 directly Under 18? Stop listening now and visit 1:00 Poly in the News The Washington Post follows up Calling out OKCupid’s couple privilege roundup To unicorn hunters from an ex unicorn The exquisite...

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PW 424: My suggestion backfired! Now what?

What to do when your well-intended relationship suggestion backfires Download the mp3 directly 1:00 Host chat and announcements  Rocky Mountain Poly living Denver May 8-10 Call in what you wish you’d known about poly for our 10 year anniversary! 802-505-POLY 1:45 Poly in the...

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Ask Minx: How do I ask for what I want when I don’t want to get my hopes up?

Minx-- There is a idea that it's better to clearly articulate one's own wants and needs. But... but at least for me there is an another side of this coin. Articulating wants raises expectations. If I've articulated my wants, it causes a lot of pain when...

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PW 404: Is he poly or just chicken?

What do you do when the point of your vee isn't communicating with your metamour? Download the mp3 directly Introduction Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:00 Announcements and Host Chat LustyGuy and I will be teaching 8 Things and...

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PW 386: Telling the emperor he has no clothes

Download the mp3 directly 1:00 Announcements and Host Chat OKCupid has added Relationship Type (mono/non-mono and mostly/strictly) under your details! Plus, you can specify "in an open relationship" (versus "seeing someone") I'll be teaching at Debauchery April 25-27 in North Carolina Topic:...

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Kicking Poly Drama in the Ass

Want to avoid poly drama? We had a great time at Winter Wickedness discussing what "drama" actually is and how to kick it on its ass for a drama-free poly relationship. Full deck below: Kicking poly drama on its ass...

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PW 368: Metamour cock block

What do you do when your metamour cuts off communications? Download the mp3 directly 1:00 Host chat with Minx and LustyGuy Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert are writing a book! Help fund their Indiegogo campaign to write it! Check out the awesome...

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PW 320: I hate my metamour!

Listener M writes in with a dilemma: what do you do when you love your girlfriend but hate your metamour? Download the mp3 directly Introduction Under-18 warning and redirection to Scarleteen 1:00 News and host chat Welcome to our cohost, LustyGuy. Can you...

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