How do you get over the loss of an intense relationship, like a D/s one?
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1:00 Announcements and host chat
- Minx and LustyGuy got back from vacation… sick as dogs.
- PW friend J.R. Blackwell, an amazing photographer, is looking to photograph a poly wedding! See Blackwell's work here and get HALF OFF to the first poly group that engages her!
4:35 Topic: Getting over your Dom
How do you get over your Dom after an intense relationship and a rough breakup? Some advice:
- This just sucks, kinky or not. Allow yourself to grieve the loss.
- You'll get through this. And you'll be better for it.
- Seek out a poly/kinky support network for this and other issues. Being isolated makes a breakup even harder.
- Find a poly/kinky-friendly therapist in your area to have someone professional to talk to. I did this, and it helped make the year after a difficult breakup much better.
Lee asks for advice on losing a poly relationship and going from a poly family of three to just a couple of two.
19:00 Happy Poly Moment
Herbalwise shares a happy poly moment.
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How not to be a giant douche on FetLife
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1:00 How not to be a douche on FetLife
Best practices for getting FetLife booty and not being pegged as a douchebag:
- Tell us who you are.
Pay attention. Read a person’s profile before you message him/her. If the person is smart enough to specify what he/she does and doesn’t like in terms of approach, offers and play, read and respect that. Modify your opening message accordingly.
Be civil. Being confrontational and aggressive or writing in all caps doesn’t make you a hot top, and no one is falling for it. No experienced bottom will associate aggression from a stranger as hot, safe, sane or sexy.
Participate. FetLife is a community. Join groups that you find interesting and participate in discussions (see #3). Show that you’re not just kinky online or in private but an active member of the local scene with other people that know and trust you.
- a. Complete your profile before sending messages to anyone else.
- b. Have a profile picture that looks like you (not your cock, girlfriend, slave or favorite cartoon character, YOU.)
- c. Include photos that are primarily of you or your work. This does not include photos of the last 20 girls that sucked your cock. It does include toys you made, pretty rope work and artistic shots of scenes that convey a strong emotion and your own personality.
- d. List your fetishes.
16:15 Movie review: Head in the Clouds
Joreth reviews Head in the Clouds as a poly-friendly movie.
- Grace asked how to handle mundane things like chores and finances.
- Blake wrote on episode 288 on geeks and kink in to make a correlation between a creative, open mind and sexual late-bloomers, “I think being kinky and geeky totally makes you more intelligent than the average person.”
- Angel responded to Matt’s rant against marriage in episode 288 to clarify a personal take on marriage: “To us a wedding is a chance to celebrate your relationship publicly with other people.”
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