514: How do I tell my partner no?

How do I tell my partner no? Download the episode directly Under 18? Stop listening now and visit Scarleteen Today’s cohost is Kevin Patterson 1:30 Announcements and host chat Multilinking conference 3:45 Topic: how do I tell my partner no? Eva writes in to ask how to tell...

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513: Does dating poly make me poly?

Does dating a poly guy make me poly? How do I ethically pursue a core relationship? Download the episode directly Under 18? Stop listening now and visit Scarleteen Today’s cohost is LustyGuy 1:30 Announcements and host chat RelateCon was amazing! 5:45 Poly in the news Rethinking monogamy...

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512: How do I avoid being ghosted?

How do I avoid being ghosted again? Download the episode directly Under 18? Stop listening now and visit Scarleteen Today’s cohost is Kevin Patterson 1:30 Announcements and host chat Foropoliamor is in Spain June 16-18 2:30 Poly in the news I’m 90% honest; the 10% lying is...

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511: My metamour wants me to be out of the closet

Who decides when I come out as polyamorous?   Download the episode directly Under 18? Stop listening now and visit Scarleteen Today’s cohost is Lusty Guy 1:30 Announcements and host chat Are you frustrated with online poly dating? Try our new ebook, No Dick Pics:...

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510: Smart Girl’s Guide to Polyamory

We chat with Dedecker Winston of the Multiamory podcast and author of the new book, The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory  Download the episode directly Under 18? Stop listening now and visit Scarleteen Today’s cohost is Lusty Guy 1:30 Announcements and host chat Polyamory mentioned...

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509: Loving less after a triad implosion

How do I date only the wife after our triad implodes and the husband won't communicate with me? Download the episode directly Under 18? Stop listening now and visit Scarleteen Today’s cohost is Kevin Patterson 1:30 Topic: How to date half a couple after...

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508: Poly Activist Profile: Ruby Bouie Johnson

A chat with poly activist Ruby Bouie Johnson Download the episode directly Under 18? Stop listening now and visit Scarleteen 1:30 Interview: Ruby Johnson We profile Ruby Johnson, therapist and organizer of Poly Dallas Millennium, an event focused on highlighting marginalized communities, including people...

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Poly book nook: The Smart Girl’s Guide to Polyamory

An interview with Dedeker Wilson, author of the new book, The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory Why did you decide to write this book? I began my journey into polyamory in 2010, and it changed my life. As I was first discovering...

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507: How do I get control of my fears?

How do I get control of my fears and insecurities in order to better deal with poly situations? UPDATE: THE AUDIO FILE HAS BEEN REPLACED WITH A FULL MONO MIX. NO MORE PING-PONG LISTENING! Download the episode directly Under 18? Stop listening...

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My poly story

On the podcast, I've told bits and pieces of my poly story and answered the questions "how did you know you were poly" and "when did you come out." For those who have an interest, here is my story of...

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