PW 372: Poly and progressive swinging

Life on the Swingset podcast

Life on the Swingset podcast

How does polyamory overlap with progressive swinging? The Swingset crew chimes in!

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1:00 Interview: the Swingset crew!

The Swingset crew talks about news in progressive polyamory and how much it crosses over with polyamory! Ginger, Cooper and Dylan are back after a previous non-monogamy blowout with Poly Weekly.

  • What is progressive swinging?
  • Why and when and to whom to come out. It’s easy to hide.
  • What is the line between swing partner, dear friend and lover or partner?
  • Why do we draw these boundaries, and can’t we do more crossover events?
  • Relationship fluidity and how to prevent relationship boxing

41:35 Happy Poly Moment

  • F shares an HPM about going to a poly meetup with partners and everyone having a great time
  • Jessica was happy to tell her partner about her exciting date!
  • D tells about moving in with poly and kinky friends but not in a romantic way. Minx says that IS poly, because intimate friendships totally count!

46:00 Thank you!

Thanks to David and Ginger, and welcome Rebekka to the PW Playmates!

Wrap up

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PW 338: Swingset non-monogamy orgy!

Life on the Swingset podcast

What happens when the crew of the Swingset Life joins Poly Weekly? THIS!

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1:00 News and host chat

  • There is a new FetLife group on living as a “single secondary” (Signup and login required) with interesting discussions such as “what would your ideal poly situation look like?
  • Relax; it’s a lap dance, not a root canal. Why you should enjoy your lap dance and stop trying to save your dancer – From Sex and the 405

8:00 Swingset orgy blowout!

It’s a non-monogamy orgy as the Swingset crew joins Polyamory Weekly! Ginger, Dylan, Cooper and Shira (also cohost of Pedestrian Polyamory podcast) talk progressive swinging, modern non-monogamy and a bit about sucking cock. Be polypodcasterous!

  • Introductions
  • And they’re off! (Is Google Calendar foreplay?)
  • 16:00 What is progressive swinging? And blurring the line between polyamory and swinging
  • Male bisexuality and swinging today and why guys shouldn’t be afraid to be bi; how women love gay porn
  • 41:50 is it getting warm at this orgy or is it just me?
  • 42:15 myth: swingers are rich yuppies while polys are broke hippies. Discuss!

55:20 Thanks

Thanks to Ryan and Kevin for their donations!

Wrapup

Questions? Comments? Feedback? Email polyweekly@gmail.com or call the listener comment line at 802-505-POLY (our new number!). And hey, why not attach an audio comment to that email? :-) Check out PolyWeekly at Blubrry.com. Share this with a friend or write an iTunes review!


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Chicago Many Loves and Milwaukee Non-Monogamy Workshop

Two big events!

First, the Chicago Many Loves seminar is this Saturday, June 14th!
A continuing series designed to provide a supportive and safe environment for people to explore issues of non-monogamous practice and identity. Topics for this month are two very different but often related topics, “Poly Community” and “Poly Cheating.” Open to adults age 18 and older who either practice or are curious about non-monogamy, open relationships, and polyamory.

Held Saturday, June 14th, from 10AM to 1PM at Center on Halsted (3656 North Halsted, Chicago, IL 60613). Please contact David Rodemaker at 773.472.6643 x472 or drodemaker@hoursinc.com for more details. Come to the second floor reception area and check in there. $15 fee. Space is limited; RSVP appreciated but not required.

Second, Negotiating Non-Monogamy is back!
Location: Milwaukee A Woman’s Touch
Date/Time: Saturday, July 12th, 1:00 – 2:30 PM
Cost: $35 per person; everyone over 18 welcome.

Open marriage, swinging, polyamory, oh, my! These days, more and more couples are choosing non-monogamy for their own intimate relationships. But the path from monogamy to an open marriage, a swinger lifestyle or polyamory can be a tricky one if you’re not aware of the pitfalls you might hit along the way and the discussions that you and your partner need to have in order to avoid them. Plus, those Hot Bi Babes are just a myth, anyway–they don’t actually exist. Like unicorns.

So forget the unicorns and join Minx for a fun and frank discussion of how to negotiate new boundaries–and discover the joy and intimacy non-monogamy can bring to your existing relationship.

Minx is host of the popular Polyamory Weekly podcast, now with over 150 weekly episodes, and has spoken on topics relating to multiple loves at the Heartland Polyamory Conference, GD2 and other events. Her work has been featured on Podfinder, ErosZine and Penthouse Forum, and she currently hosts a poly book club in Chicago. Plus, Janet Hardy once complimented her ass. To register, visit A Woman’s Touch.

Poly Weekly #153: Listener Feedback Frenzy!

The new Polyamory Weekly #153: Listener Feedback Frenzy is up! Direct download is at Poly Weekly #153

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0:00 Introduction and host chat
Intro, under-18 warning and re-direction to www.scarleteen.com; friend me on Twitter and answer questions about what you want on the show, call 206-202-POLY with comments or discuss your own topics at the forums at http://forum.polyweekly.com.

1:00 Announcement

  • Broom Street Theater has just opened its run of Multiple O, based on The Ethical Slut, which runs through June 8th
  • 5:30 Listener Mail
    Amul comments on the poly roundtable from Conflation “you do the thing you’re scared of, and you get the courage after, not before”
    9:15 Chrysallis shares his coming-out story
    11:05 Steve Eley comments on the Sexy Shenanigans episode and historical non-monogamy about William Moulten
    13:00 Lea, a family therapist in California, asks about the connection between engineers/geeks/role-playing gamers and poly; if you need a poly-friendly therapist in California, visit First Street Therapy
    17:20 Jacob from Texas sends in Torchwood spank for the Minx!
    18:40 BravoTango and bringing “metamour” to the community; why no one wants to discuss polygyny and polyandry
    23:55 Feedback on #150: Five Places to Meet Poly People

    • Nobilis agrees on being friendworthy before dateworthy; met his first poly family in the SCA
    • Adam mentions Snuggle Parties and trance dance events as places to meet people, including LoveTribe
    • Quidis adds swing parties to the list

    32:35 Jacob from Texas comments on Graydancer’s reading of “Pressure” for Escape Pod and my own reading for Podcastle, “For Fear of Dragons“; this gives me a chance to pimp out both podcasts–Escape Pod for science fiction and Podcastle for fantasy; I also just did a reading for Pseudopod, the horror podcast
    39:50 Jamie in Mississippi says it’s illegal to start up a poly group there!
    41:50 Bubba wrote in to ask about poly seniors
    44:00 Helen Fisher spoke on love and monogamy again at TED; download the video here

    45:15 Wrap-up
    Questions? Comments? Feedback? Email cunningminx@gmail.com or call the listener comment line at 206-202-POLY. And hey, why not attach an audio comment to that email? :-) Check out PolyWeekly at polyweekly.libsyn.com. Thanks for listening!

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